Anyone here who likes it done to them rather than doing it?

Most of what gets posted here is written from one side of it, and I am on the other.

I like my own feet being paid attention to. Massaged, looked at, made a fuss of. I have very little interest in anybody else’s, which I know puts me in a minority in a place like this.

Is anyone else here that way round? And is there a word for it that is not clumsy, because I have never found one.